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Fife
Folklore - Funerals
In
a close-knit Fife fishing community every blind was drawn along
the route taken by the hearse and a long,
long line of walking mourners, who were always men, dressed in
dark clothes, with black socks, and ties, and gloves and scarves.
The hearse was generally preceded by the town’s officer
in his red-trimmed uniform and top hat.
The dead cla’es
Most homes had a special set of sheets, towels, and pillow-cases
laid aside for a death, for the corpse remained in bed until the
evening before the funeral. Some families had a custom of making
up the marriage bed with fine linen, and when this had had its
first washing, it was laid aside for dead cla’es.
Kistin’ or coffin in‘
A short ceremony, conducted by the minister and
attended by relatives and close friends, when the body was laid
in the coffin the night before the funeral.
Funeral letters
Invitations to a funeral, on black-edged cards in black-
edged envelopes, usually delivered by hand. To be asked was an
acknowledgement of friendship with the deceased, but many people
went to the funeral
without an invitation.
Mournin‘s
Dark clothes worn by relatives. There were many unwritten rules
about what should be worn and for how long, according to the closeness
of kinship with the dead person. Some families even had black-edged
handker-
chiefs for Sundays. Half mournin‘s were the greys and mauves
worn by children, or by those moving away from unrelieved black.
Mournin’
baund
Occasionally, if a boat owner died, a mourning-band
of blue, instead of white, would be painted on the boat, under
the gunnel or round the funnel, or as a mouth-piece at the bows.
Kirk
yaird
Although a funeral was a solemn occasion, and great respect was
paid to the dead, the church yard was not a haunted place for
fisher folk. Young girls of ten or eleven years old would often
walk there with a little bunch of flowers for the family grave.
It was a favourite Sunday walk for many, and in St. MonanS the
women took their knitting there on fine weekday afternoons, sitting
on a wooden seat to enjoy the sea-view.
If
visitors commented, they would answer, “Oh, well, we’re
among oor ain folk!”
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